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Now the hangover has gone and I am into my first day of being 29, I have been thinking about where I am and what I am doing with myself and a few noticeable areas have been flagged up and are needing some TLC and accessing my situation. 

Some of you might know I have been in a bit of a weird place and this is due to a number of factors, some personal and some work oriented. So as of now I will be addressing these quite strongly. I have come to the conclusion that I should not be sad or depressed about them and I must look to the future and I should focus on the silver lining rather than the grey cloud. Now I have already started changing my ways of thinking, the ways of doing business and how I address my personal life. More details to come as they unfold. 

Also I have been thinking about what the hell am I doing in the UK? I have been here over 9 years now and to be honest I have had enough of it. The weather is shit, the place is way to expensive, I am not moving forward in terms of business so I am thinking I might look else where. I am not saying that if I move to another country I will get a career, what I am saying is that the idea of being in a new country will excite me to strive to enjoy life again because I have not been enjoying for the past 6 month or so. Now I have not decide that I am leaving yet but I will be getting my affairs in place to move soon...... more to be announced as it unfolds. 

With regards to going out as well, I will be cutting this down as well. I am not getting anything from going to bars, getting drunk and waking up with a hangover and finding out that you have wasted a lot of money for nothing. So as of now I will only go out once a month for a general drink and if there is an occasion. I think there are a few people in the same boat but do get in contact if you have any exciting ideas but do not call me to come out and drink for no special reason. 

This is all for now.... x

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Celebrating Birthdays is always tough

As my birthday draws closer many feelings are popping up which start to make you think a little about where you are and what you are doing with yourself. I am sure that many of you out there have these same feelings.

I know when you look at the age you are going to be on your birthday your instant though is that you are getting old which in fact is not the case, unless you are in actual fact old. So once that passes you immediately start thinking of how you are going to celebrate your birthday and you conjure up so many plans that will in the end get you absolutely hammered and that is always fun as you get all excited with your friends.

Once you have a plan for what you want to do you start telling people and lets be honest, you go onto Facebook and create an event and then invite you friends to come to the event. The hard part of this is not creating the event but the comments that come after you put the event on to Facebook. You start to see all the people who are not around to celebrate with and have not caught up with in ages. This is not good, you start to feel a little down but it, well I do.

I hope most of you know what the plan is for my birthday. We are going to one of the Bars in Earlsfield, a favourite of mine, The Wandle. Some of you will know and have drunk here. If you need any more info, please get in touch.

So to all of you who are coming I look forward to getting drunk with you and enjoying my birthday.

To all of you who are not coming, I am sorry you can not be there and you had better have a drink for me.. There are many people out there who I would of loved to come and you know who you are...

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What has been going on in my life....

So I have been a bit quiet on the blogging front and this is down to a few things...let me tell you about them. 


Firstly I have been gyming and playing a lot of squash. I am getting back into the exercise thing. Getting "The Body of Zeus" back. As well as hitting the weights I am getting back in to squash and I have noticed my game improving. Do not get my wrong I will not be playing in the world championship but I will definitely start beating people who are better than me. Thinking about it, Anthony and I have hitting the gym at least 5 days a week. NO drinking during the week any more. 

During the weekends, I have been have been going out. Last weekend I was in Yorkshire for my cousins birthday. She had booked out these cabins on a small lake. The cabins were awesome. Well presented and all had a jacuzzi. A remedy for disaster. The weekend had all the elements of a good weekend. There was lots of booze, mankini pictures, dress up Saturday and naked jacuzzi. I must say it was awesome but I felt so rough after that, it took 3/4 days after to get over it all. 


The weekend that has just past was quiet and hectic all in one. Quiet as in did not go out so much but hectic cause we drank so much on Saturday night. Thank you Travis for that.

March is coming up and it is my birthday coming up. Yes I will be 29 years old, wow where has the time gone? I am not sure what i am doing yet but will do something for the weekend of the 12th. What else is happening in March????

There is "Steak and Blowjob day". Yes this is a really holiday not just a Craig holiday. Click on the link and check it out. haha. Everyone must get involved.

So if you are not in London and you will not seeing me, please send my presents in the post, recorded mail just to make sure that I get it. email me if you need my address. :)

That's all folks. I will be back shortly..

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